sometimes, i forget what i lost.
not that i really forget, but i forget enough. i forget enough to not feel that gash within. that gush of heat and cold and the depth it goes.
where it rises, all around and underneath my feelings and words and feet. and all the ground and air mean nothing. i mean nothing.
a being of energy displaced, miscalculated, still unfit. unfitting. and the world goes on and on moving as quickly as it always did.
in my loss again i am slowed to the speed of an ache. a slow pulse. barely even connected anymore to the rest. all the strings to this place cut away.
it is not just the loss. it is that in the loss i am lost. my energies unhinged from all the rest, all the places that used to be safe. i remember all this, all this hasn’t changed.
i am unhooked, gashed and gushing. i am without. i am unsafe.
i’m glad you broke across the quiet i smoothed on top of this. to remind me that i’m still full of noise, ungatherable, unquieted.
all the everyday becomes a habit, to paint the quiet, as if enough coat upon coat of it could erase the etchings, the caverns, the spaces.
so thank you. for your heavy handedness, the tactlessness of your tongue that reminded me.
i am still searching.
A little earlier this year I deleted all my email and my facebook and all the noise and I completely forgot that my RSS feeds which tether me to this blog and the rest went with them and I only just remembered and checked today! D:
I want to just build a tent on your tongue so that I am audibly rocked by every mystifying, profoundity that you ever speak. I DO NOT KNOW HOW YOU WRITE THIS STUFF. But it’s important for the world, in some way, that you do.
Maybe just my world.
This is heartwrenching… why am I so connected and familiar with this, with everything you write. Sheesh.
Epic entry bexy.
Love ya.
Oh Caleb, I’m so glad you remembered to check on me here
After I wrote this I wanted to hear from you, the universe must have tugged at you for me. You are quite honestly the reason this blog continues to exist.
Kinda heavy, but true.
Glad to be involved.
Were i a millionaire i’d pay you absurd sums of money just to sit and do this all day in a roomful of wine and good music.
ohh, I would love you forever
(even more than I already do!)
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